Have you ever been told that you were valued? And then thought, what exactly does that mean, to be valued? Feelings of being acknowledged and appreciated, “valued,” should be the norm for everyone, and yet in most relationships it is not. To be valued means that you are recognized for your participation in another person’s life and the blessings of your presence in it. That you have noticeable significance in your thoughts, actions, and the way that you care about others. It means that you are respected, and how you feel, what you go through, and your needs matter to the person that values you. Being valued also creates an atmosphere where people feel safe enough to be authentic without fear of rejection or comparison. It reminds us that our lives are not measured by what we can produce, but by who we are and the love we choose to give. Genuine value is revealed through consistent actions, not occasional words or empty promises. When someone truly values you, they make room for your voice, your growth, and your God-given purpose. Likewise, valuing others requires humility, intentionality, and a heart that chooses to see beyond imperfections. Many people don’t know how to respond when another person is willing to genuinely acknowledge the value that they bring to the life of another. At times, it is as if it triggers a fight or flight response. I pray often over what is written in *1 Corinthians 13:4 Love suffers long and is kind; love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; 5 does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; 6 does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; 7 bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never fails… When a person loves another in these ways, it is the literal meaning of what “to be valued” is all about. Understanding that “Valuable” means something is likely to have value to a lot of people, is one thing. To be “Valued” means that you are definitely treasured by certain individuals. There are times though, when you may have to walk away from who you value because the other person doesn’t see your worth in their life. Something else to think about, there is a difference between being liked and being valued. A lot of people may like you, the real question is, how many value you and show you that they are thankful that you are in their lives? The sad part of life is that sometimes we never learn the true value of a person in our lives until they are gone forever. Therefore, never allow someone’s inability to recognize your worth to redefine what God has already declared about your life. Choose to surround yourself with people who not only say they love you but consistently demonstrate that love through honor, respect, and faithfulness. At the same time, make it your personal mission to intentionally let the people God has placed in your life know that they are valued before the opportunity is lost. When we live with this conviction, we become reflections of God’s love, leaving behind a legacy of encouragement, gratitude, and genuine appreciation that will continue to bless others long after we are gone. Closing thought: God never intended for love to be assumed; He intended for it to be demonstrated. Value the people He has placed in your life today, because tomorrow is never promised, but today’s love can leave an eternal imprint. 

My BeLoved, may the grace and peace of the Lord Jesus, the love of God the Father, and the communion of the Holy Spirit, be with you all. Amen. In Christ Love, douglas. HE>i. pastord.blog

Special Note: I want to thank those who read what I write and are encouraged to support the ministry God has entrusted to me either one time or have decided to give on a monthly basis. I am encouraged to see certain verses playing out before my eyes like what is written in *Philippians 4:16 For even in Thessalonica you sent aid once and again for my necessities. 17 Not that I seek the gift, but I seek the fruit that abounds to your account.*

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