The dictionary defines “intentional” as “done on purpose; deliberate.” When it comes to relationships, we live in a culture that lacks a certain amount of intentionality because we have made our lives full of busyness. “Happenstance” friendships describe most of the relationships in our lives whether we want to admit it or not. Being intentional has a lot to do with the boundaries that a person sets up. Family dynamics, history, and trauma affect our lives and cause us to avoid relationships where we may feel vulnerable or scared, yet the Lord often does His deepest work when we are willing to move beyond comfort and into authentic connection with others. Intentional relationships require us to slow down enough to notice the needs that are easy to overlook in the rush of everyday life. They challenge us to exchange convenience for commitment and surface conversations for meaningful depth. Choosing to invest in people consistently, rather than only when it is easy, reflects the heart of Christ as seen in the way He interacted with people. Every act of intentional love becomes a testimony, that people matter more than our schedules. When a relationship is grounded in honesty, being unguarded, and having accountability, intentionality is a little easier to achieve and genuineness is experienced. I pray often about what is written in *Hebrews 10:24 And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, 25 not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.* In our fast-paced world of demands and distractions, truly listening intently to another person shows that you want to hear what they are not saying as much as what they are not saying. Being intentional involves being active instead of passive, being purposeful in your words and actions, placing the needs of others above your own. Sometimes being intentional involves picking up the phone and making that difficult call, going to coffee when your schedule is full, planning an excursion and then taking it, showing up on the doorstep ready for an in-depth conversation without time constraints, maybe just a quick text to let someone know that they are thought about and, even more importantly, prayed for. An intentional person says what they mean and means what they say. I strive to be intentional in forming relationships, and I have witnessed others be just as intentional in sabotaging them. We must deliberately and intentionally dedicate time to those whom the Lord has put in our lives for His purpose, whether we like it or not, for there is always a reason for a season. The body of Christ is strengthened when every person knows they are seen, valued, and welcomed exactly where God has placed them. There is room at the table for every believer to encourage, serve, and be encouraged in return, because we all have a unique purpose in His kingdom. When we choose inclusion over isolation, we reflect the love of Jesus, who continually drew people near with compassion and truth. May we live with the conviction that every relationship entrusted to us is an opportunity to glorify God and to leave an eternal impact. Simply put, in the moment, do your best to be present, for that may be the greatest gift someone else ever receives. Closing thought: Intentional living is measured less by what we accomplish and more by who we choose to love well. Every conversation, every prayer, and every act of presence becomes an opportunity for God to reveal His grace through us. The relationships we nurture today may become the very testimony of His faithfulness tomorrow. 

My BeLoved, may the grace and peace of the Lord Jesus, the love of God the Father, and the communion of the Holy Spirit, be with you all. Amen. In Christ Love, douglas. HE>i. pastord.blog

Special Note: I want to thank those who read what I write and are encouraged to support the ministry God has entrusted to me either one time or have decided to give on a monthly basis. I am encouraged to see certain verses playing out before my eyes like what is written in *Philippians 4:16 For even in Thessalonica you sent aid once and again for my necessities. 17 Not that I seek the gift, but I seek the fruit that abounds to your account.*

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