The word “Friend” has a beautiful history, originating from the Old English frēond, which meant “one who loves” or “to set free”. This highlights that true friendship is a voluntary, freeing bond based on genuine care. While the literal meaning of a friend is someone you know well and like who is typically not family, the word carries deep layers of loyalty, trust, and shared history. I used to be afraid of losing friends, until I realized that the people that I thought would be there for me never really were. My loyalty and love for them I thought was apparent, but when it came to a time when I was in a dark place and they could see it, they were never there to share even a glimmer of light in the darkness or hope in the despair. I have had more strangers reach out in hopes of encouraging me then the people that I thought should have. Over time I have found the value of having a friend, what they are to look like, and more importantly what it means to be one by reading what is written in *Ecclesiastes 4:9 Two are better than one, Because they have a good reward for their labor. 10 For if they fall, one will lift up his companion. But woe to him who is alone when he falls, For he has no one to help him up. 11 Again, if two lie down together, they will keep warm; But how can one be warm alone? 12 Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.* I have been blessed to have friendships in the Lord with certain individuals that really do share the love of Jesus with me. Our bond with Christ as the centerpiece encourages me greatly. The true value of a relationship really can be discerned by the actions of others when your involvement in their life is no longer a benefit to them. Through my growth I have discovered enemies in my midst that I had befriended. I have come to a place where it is no longer I who lose anyone, but they who will lose me. I like what Charles Spurgeon said about friendship, “We are one in Christ; let us be friends with one another; but let us never be friends with one another’s error. If I be wrong, rebuke me sternly; I can bear it, and bear it cheerfully; and if ye be wrong, expect the like measure from me, and neither peace nor parley with your mistakes.” True friendship can be challenging, but in reality it is a sharpening of our swords and with God We Are Stronger Together. Closing thoughts: Being a good friend involves active listening, consistent support, trust, and empathy, creating a safe space where both people feel valued and accepted. To really show the Love of Christ we need to prioritize showing up during tough times, celebrating successes, maintaining healthy boundaries, and being honest. Good friends prioritize the relationship, apologize when wrong, and are reliable especially when it is inconvenient. Ultimately, a friend in Christ helps carry burdens to ensure their friend is not overwhelmed, pointing them to find their strength in God. I pray that I am able to mirror Jesus’s love through sacrificial, unconditional, and loyal companionship, prioritizing spiritual growth, and pointing others toward God rather than myself. Even though I may fail, I will do my best to actively pray for others in need, offering empathetic listening, speaking honest truths in love, and serving without expecting anything in return. Thank you to all who are my friends and do these things for me. Jesus loves you and I love you too!

My BeLoved, may the grace and peace of the Lord Jesus, the love of God the Father, and the communion of the Holy Spirit, be with you all. Amen. In Christ Love, douglas. HE>i. pastord.blog

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