The World Health Organization estimates that each year approximately one million people worldwide die from suicide, which represents a global mortality rate of 16 people per 100,000 or one death every 40 seconds. There are many people that I talk with, in and out of the body of Christ, that all have something in common, insufferable pain. I have asked them specifically if they want to die, and their answer is “No.” Then I ask if they want to live, and the common response is, “Not like this.” There are many different reasons that I have heard as to why they feel like they do. Trauma that they experienced, heredity, environment, chemical imbalance, stress,etc. etc. The words of Paul bring me great peace when I struggle with my own challenges of living. It is written in *2 Corinthians 12:8 Concerning this thing I pleaded with the Lord three times that it might depart from me. 9 And He said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. 10 Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in needs, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then I am strong.* It is not easy for me to rejoice in the midst of the fiery trials that I seem to go through on a regular basis, but I am confident that God will help me and all who struggle as I do, endure to the end. I like the words of Charles Spurgeon, “My faith rests not upon what I am, or shall be, or feel, or know, but in what Christ is, in what He has done, and in what He is now doing for me.” Simple things to do to help those who struggle. Give your time to being a good listener. Reassure them that they are not alone. Stay calm, not jumping to premature conclusions about how or why they are where they are at. Try not to make assumptions. Keep social contact without encouraging dependence or isolation. Be patient and let them speak first. Keep in mind that sometimes words don’t need to be said, just someone to sit with them in the dark, and when possible bring them a candle to help them find the light again. If we can seek to understand these periods of turmoil as times for growth for ourselves and others, we can not only be mended, but become a more beautiful life reflecting the redemptive work of God in our lives and in the lives of others. The one thing I have come to understand is that listening is more than just hearing the words someone is saying; it involves understanding their emotions, perspectives, and experiences. By practicing active listening and avoiding the temptation to give advice immediately, we can better support those around us and foster healthier, more productive relationships in leading them to find the answer on their own. My prayer for all who struggle is, that you receive healing and peace in and through the Lord Jesus by your faith and trust in Him, Amen.
My BeLoved, may the grace and peace of the Lord Jesus, the love of God the Father, and the communion of the Holy Spirit, be with you all. Amen. In Christ Love, douglas. HE>i. pastord.blog
Special Note: I want to thank those who read what I write and are encouraged to support the ministry God has entrusted to me either one time or have decided to give on a monthly basis. I am encouraged to see certain verses playing out before my eyes like what is written in *Philippians 4:16 For even in Thessalonica you sent aid once and again for my necessities. 17 Not that I seek the gift, but I seek the fruit that abounds to your account.*
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