When I became a father I learned the importance of taking time to make small talk with my children. This was something that was not really present when I was growing up. Whether they were walking with me, working alongside me, or more importantly when we sat down to eat, we put the distractions of the world aside and I focused on them and what was going on in their lives. Having a meal together is an expression of family, hospitality and friendship that many of us in our busy lifestyles have come to neglect or forsake for one reason or another. I believe that it is mostly due to misplaced priorities. In our home, fellowship and food is a time-honored tradition that I try my best to carry on to this day, and now I continue it with my grandchildren included. I reflect quite often on what is written in *Proverbs 15:17 It is better to eat vegetables with those who love you than to eat meat with those who hate you.* Most nights we sit at the table and go around one by one to share the high points of our days and/or praise reports, as well as what we are thankful for. When we are blessed to have friends with us we include them as well, nothing changes. It is interesting how many people have never done something like this with their own families. Some of the past highlights are simple and yet so precious. Thieodore (8yrs old) has said that he was happy to build a boat from blocks with his friend in the living room. Thiea (9yrs old) said it was to be able to play games with her friend. Tyenna (10yrs old) said that singing was her high point. Trinytee (13yrs old) that she has been finishing reading her latest book in the Nancy Drew series and her puzzle is almost finished. As for our past guest comments, (#1) that she was able to have dinner with her son. Guest (#2) that he was able to spend time with his daughter. And yes, our guests are considered family. For Tiasia, she was able to sit there with her family and enjoy who they are at a table big enough for everyone. DJ, that he was done with work for the day. For me, I was able to have closure on some projects. The food we ate may not have been anything fancy but we were blessed with enough. I have come to see that a rich household may have a great feast for supper, but if there is hatred, cynicism, and sniping at each other, does it really matter what is laid before you? It will never be enjoyed as much as the simple meal by a godly, loving family with thanksgiving to God for all that He has done for them. The most impactful part for me is living in the moment. Being conscious about today for tomorrow is not promised and yesterday is history. I like what is written in *Psalms 118:24 This is the day the Lord has made;  We will rejoice and be glad in it.* My friends, be deliberate with those you love because you never know when you might be seeing someone for the last time. Do your best to make sure that the last thought of you is welcoming, warm, loving, and kind. Life is fragile, don’t take it or anyone you care about for granted. Tell them you love them for it may be the last words you say to someone and possibly the most impactful. We all need to evaluate what our priorities will be today for these little moments are truly what matters most. I love you, and remember Jesus loves you more. My BeLoved, may the grace and peace of the Lord Jesus, the love of God the Father, and the communion of the Holy Spirit, be with you all. Amen. In Christ Love, douglas. HE>i. pastord.blog

Special Note: I want to thank those who read what I write and are encouraged to support the ministry God has entrusted to me either one time or have decided to give on a monthly basis. I am encouraged to see certain verses playing out before my eyes like what is written in *Philippians 4:16 For even in Thessalonica you sent aid once and again for my necessities. 17 Not that I seek the gift, but I seek the fruit that abounds to your account.*

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