The dictionary defines “intentional” as “done on purpose; deliberate.” When it comes to relationships, we live in a culture that lacks a certain amount of intentionality because we have made our lives full of busyness. “Happenstance” friendships describe most of the relationships in our lives. Being intentional has a lot to do with the boundaries that a person sets up. Family dynamics, history, and trauma affect our lives and cause us to avoid relationships where we may feel vulnerable or scared. When a relationship is grounded in honesty, being unguarded, and having accountability; intentionality is a little easier to achieve and genuineness is experienced. I pray often about what is written in *Hebrews 10:24 And let us consider one another in order to stir up love and good works, 25 not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as is the manner of some, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.* In our fast-paced world of demands and distractions, truly listening intently to another person shows that you want to hear what they are not saying as much as what they are. Being intentional involves being active instead of passive, being purposeful in your words and actions, placing the needs of others above your own. Sometimes being intentional involves picking up the phone and making that difficult call, going to coffee when your schedule is full, planning an excursion and then taking it, showing up on the doorstep ready for an in depth conversation without time constraints, maybe just a quick text to let someone know that they are thought about and even more importantly prayed for. An intentional person says what they mean and means what they say. I strive to be intentional in forming relationships, and I have witnessed others be just as intentional in sabotaging them. We must deliberately and intentionally dedicate time to those who the Lord has put in our lives for His purpose, whether we like it or not. Simply put, in the moment, do your best to be present, for that may be the greatest gift someone else ever receives. Thank you to all those who are intentional in caring for me and my family, you are truly my beloved. My Brethren, may the grace of the Lord Jesus, and the love of God the Father, and the communion of the Holy Spirit, be with you all. Amen. In Christ Love, douglas. HE>i. pastord.blog

Special Note: I want to thank those who read what I write and are encouraged to give either one time or have decided to give on a monthly basis in support of the different ministries God has entrusted to me. I am encouraged to see certain verses playing out before my eyes like what is written in *Philippians 4:16 For even in Thessalonica you sent aid once and again for my necessities. 17 Not that I seek the gift, but I seek the fruit that abounds to your account.* 

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